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WHY do we gossip when we know how much harm it does??? Yes this question holds for all those million + things we do knowing how incorrect they r.

But “gossip” in particular is somethin i am trying to rid myself these days…. but invariably it catches up to me… mayb not in the form of me doin it…. maybe the other way round.

Sometimes i find myself in a situation and i dont know how landed myself there…

Gossip is so irresistable i know… we find ourselves doing it without even realising it… and sometimes… we know it… but just choose to give it fancy names and continue doing it.

But what we dont realise, is the extent to which it hampers our thinking, our feelings for someone, our attitude towards someone, our even our behaviour. It is entirely psychological, so dont go shaking your head with the ” nah it doesnt affect me” attitude. We dont know it… but it happens…

So many times i have made a mistake in judging people too soon… and that too based not on first hand experience but on some “slimy” gossip.

Not only does it effect the participants…. but also a mere bystander, a passive listener becomes prey to it.

So next time, lets just watch what we say and what we hear…